Thursday, December 13, 2007

I had this talk with an old friend recently and I can't help but wonder how can anyone be so tolerating? I am not as forgiving as he can and I can't fake ignorance at all. It happened with this person and lets call him A.

A had this group of good friends which many think that they are very close. But when A step into this new environment, he changed. Now it just seem to be much more closer to this new group of friends that I somethings wonder who is really his friend. He spend all of his time with this new group of people and just cheat his old group of friends. What anger me most is that this people still think he is a nice guy who is always there for them. Most importantly, he is a christian leader. Why do I know? Well, I am in-between this two groups of people that's why.

Which part of the bible teach him to behave like that? I am certain that is not from the bible and I am sure that is not how a christian should be. I don't know why A just can't tell the truth and tell either of the group the truth. Why hide the truth from those who still treat you as their close friend? What among this christian friends is so attractive that you sacrifice those whom you have known for so long? Don't you worry that you will loss their friendship? Or maybe that is what you really want?

I just can't take it lying down. Those whom you treat as close friend in this new group, I will hate every single one of them. My attitude will be foul and I will not change how I behave. One thing I can't tolerate is for someone to hurt my friends. Even if one of my friend hurt another, I will not take it lying down. There is nothing I don't know, there is only things I don't want to know. If it is not for some friends who ask me to close one eye and stand aside to watch how A suffer when the truth is uncovered, I will go straight to A and throw it right into his face.

If this is the teaching of the church, I don't want to be a part of it. I hate to know those new friends that A have. I will choose not to cross path with all those people. I will also not want to befriend any of them because I think that they are just naive people. When people say that A is a very nice person, I will just mock at their ignorance. That they don't really know A enough. That they will soon faced the sad truth of being cheated by A again. My condolences to all those who still think that A is a nice guy and a good friend.