Thursday, May 11, 2006

Just watched finish i not stupid too and i got alot of feeling and idea inside me.

Maybe not all but some of us have been marked as rotten apple in our life. It might not just be in the area of studies but also in other areas as well. But at the end, there is a part in like most, that if a apple is rotten, just cut off the part and the rest will still be good for consumption. Many a times we also label someone as a rotten apple and is good for nothing but if we look from another side, we might still find that the other side is good.

In the movie, the parent's of Tom does not understand their kids. But in our life, we are also the same. We see things only from the view point that we want and we only insist that we are right. But we should just cool down and just see it from all the sides before we come to a conclusion.

Who is truly our friends? Someone we think is good to us or someone we think we can get along with? We are often betrayed by the one we trust the most. In the show, Tom was betrayed by those that he called brothers. In our subconsious mind, we will often make use of those that we are closest to. Believe it or not even the smallest thing like getting them to carry our stuff when in fact we could do it ourselves is also a form of making use of people.

I know now why i like my house more than any other place. Not that my house is very big and luxurious but that it is small and it brings warm. I can be who i am and need not act infront of others. When we have no friends to turn to, we still have our family to turn to.

From young, we get all the praises and encouragement but we seem to lost in on the walk of growing up. We also don't know how to praise someone. Even when we praise, there is a motive behind it. Like in a competition, your team members praise you when you win a game is because you have increased their chances of winning. Have we lost the ability to praise from the depth of our heart?

"If you throw, you are left with nothing."
"Everyone needs encouragement."
"In every child, there is an angel and a devil."
"Resources used wrongly will become waste and waste used correctly will become resources."
"Appreciation is a powerful force."