Monday, December 05, 2005

Emotion is defined as a strong feeling in the dictionary. It is just a feeling? Sometimes emotion is more than a feeling, it includes action, thinking and other aspect. Like when you are angry, that is an emotion in work and it is a feeling you feel. Your actions also shows that you are angry and you will surely think of taking things into your own hand. Some emotion is also very strange and some is just unexplainable. For example feeling lost suddenly. Or out of nowhere you started scolding people and is unhappy about everything.
Love and crush is two type of emotion that people can’t understand. Love is often cultivated over time. What people say about love at first sight is actually a crush. This kind of feeling is the same when you are young and when you see a teacher and you are like mesmerized by him or her. You know why boy girl relation in young age often never last? That is because all this emotion at work is not love but crush. Kids just think that they are so handsome or beautiful and they just start to go flirting around. How can you love someone when you don’t really know that person? Kids, what do you know about love? Sometimes it is just that they go for the look. They want to look cool with a nice good looking person beside them. They just think they know a lot with a lot of experience with relation, but are they? If they are really so good at it, why did their own relation just ended like that. The simple reason is that the crush is gone. When true love appears, it can never be avoided.
This emotion not only works in BGRs, but also in friendships. You think that someone is worthy of your friendship and there is always a reason behind it. It can be that you truly click together or you share a common interest or you feel cool hanging around him or he is rich or he is influential or whatever reasons it may be. These are all not true friendship. All this can be replaced and your friendship will go away. People often think that they have good friends around but are they really? Let us search our heart and see what the reason behind every friend we made is. Maybe through this, we can even get back to our true friendship that we once had.