Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Well, many a times we hear people say that their best friend neglect them when they are in love. But is it just for relationship that friendship is put to the test? I guess other ships are also involve as well.

Don't know why but when I read friend's blog, I can always see that they claim that their best friend neglect them once they found themselves a girlfriend. In life many of this is also visible. Like in CCA when one guy want to leave early, it is often because of a girl. You can always see people change when they get into a relation. They start to mix with a different group and stray from the old friends. Once a blood brother now a stranger.

Not just with relation but I guess friendship is also the same. We tend to stick more to one friend and slowly shift to another. Ever had people ask you about how's so and so and you doing? How is the both of you? When we find ourselves a new friend, we tend to forget about the old. The old ties fade off before we notice it. You will surely want to hang out with your new friend more and neglect of your old friend. The change of attitude and behavior and thinking steps in.

So when ships collide, it is often those onboard that gets injured. So what I have learned is not to sink to deep in. The deeper we go, the more injuries we suffer. What I would suggest is to think through a relationship and friendship before going through one. If we can't balance, we have to give up one. We should be honest and frank with our friends and not just shunt them off. A good chat is always useful.